I never remember how embarrassed I was when I asked a woman about her pregnancy and she wasn't even pregnant. Looking back at it, it was ignorant and I should've known better. Whether ` someone is skinny or thick, overweight or under weight, gained weight, lost weight, just keep your comments to yourself.
Haitian men, y'all are too comfortable discussing women weight and turns around calling a girl getho for cursing you out. You complained when we are too skinny and also complained when we are too fat. I don't get it.
Haitian mothers, y'all feed us salty food and unhealthy pots of rice and rudely comments on our weight in front of everyone. Yall make the food and comments every time we get eat it. Y'all need to stop putting me on the spot at every family gathering.
Haitian dads- Enablers of our bad food habits and tells us we did not gained weight, when you know we did. While some of y'all eat all the food in the house. I think some of you guys just want us to be malnourished because you are so overprotective and doesn't want any guys to look at us.
Haitian siblings- Make stupid jokes about weights that are not funny and never failed to bring it up during an argument.
Haitian church people- After not seeing me for months, the first thing you comment on is my weight. Looking at my skirt to see how tight it is and gossiping saying that I'm stressed out.
Life will be so much easier if you just keep your comments to yourself
XoXo, Sosso
