There is nothing like falling in love. I really don't like
when people shame other people that are in long distances relationships.
There is a negative stigma for women that date a guy overseas which is
completely unfair. Whenever a woman dates someone overseas people usually think
she is desperate. Although in some cases, women are completely naive, I think
we all are at some point in love whether the guy live in your dorm, 20 minutes
away or a hundred thousand miles away.
I don’t condone women to be fools, emptying your accounts
for your mate either. I’m just telling people that like to judge without
knowing the full story to shut the fuck up. If you decided to be in a
relationship with someone abroad because you think you have found something in
that person that you longed for here are some red flags that can either pump
your breaks or investigate or run for the hills.
There phone is always dead.
How you start off talking until the wee hours in the morning
and texting 24 hours of the day, to be barely reachable and always MIA.
They want to keep the relationship off social media
Some people are private and do not like the world to be in
their business but if he is too scared to post a photo on his page, he most
likely have something to hide.
Catfish
You never see the full body pictures and the person post
fake photos and never like to send you recent photos.
He let you live in a hotel when you go visit
You made that long trip and he doesn’t take you to his house
and drop you off at a friend’s house. He has another serious relationship at
home
He is just not that into you
You always text and call first and he never puts any effort
in making the long distance relationship work
You are spending too much money
Don’t live beyond your means to support someone cause it is
a financially investment that you might not see no return on
He won’t make the first move
He has the means but waiting for you to come to him first
Follow your heart but beware of these red flags
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