How much time do you keep your mouth shut to keep the peace? How many times do you need to be a bigger person? When do you finally stop wondering if your partner is still in love with the mother of his kids? The answer is as long as it takes to keep your man happy but sometimes enough is enough.
Haitian men do not like drama and obsessing yourself over his ex is not helpful to your sanity or to your relationship. I know we as women wants to know the full truth but sometimes we cannot handle it? You might want to know the reason they broke up but what if your man was the one in the wrong. Moving on.
Most Haitian men takes pride on raising their children and they would not stop being in their lives just because you just came in the picture. Rather to make him choose on spending time between you and his kids, involve yourself even if he did not offer. But what if his ex is a territorial bitch that don't want you near her kids and can't let go of the fact the relationship is over and wants to make your life miserable, play the victim and use this as an opportunity to shine.
XoXO, sosso
