Sunday, July 10, 2016

The best time to go to Haiti

Growing up in Haiti in a town called Aux Cayes, I watched people come all over the world to visit. Some for missionary reasons, some to party on vacation, others to see family and tend to their businesses. I just happen to fall into all these categories. Whenever I just want a laid back trip without any commotion, I go during early summer, preferably June and May. The tickets are usually under 600 dollars if you are from the NY area. If you would like to experience Haiti's culture, going in February would probably be the best time due to the carnivals and other festivities. This time is really colorful, people dressed up in traditional clothing , crazy make up and costumes and a lot of dancing in the streets. Ticket prices vary because the dates usually change throughout the year. If you want to party and have a great vacation, December is your month.. Haitians take christmas parties very seriously. There is usually something going on every weekend and the club lines are usually long if you don't know someone at the door. If you going to to missionary work I recommend going in may or June since the flights are cheaper... Email me for any questions.


Xoxo, Sosso

Tuesday, July 5, 2016

In America depends on noone

I've been trough it all. The hurt, disappointment and heartbreaks will never break me down. But girlll, how much can a woman take? The worst part about it, I will forget about what someone did to me and be all cool with them again the next day. This country called America, make the most vulnerable human beings become serial killers, Friends turned out to be your enemies and relationships are now business transactions. Family is even worse, they selfishly use you, friends can gossip about you and wipe your tears and fellow church members will take you to court. Child let me stop telling my business and give you some tips on how to get trough it. 
If you are trying to make it in this country you have to be rude, so rude that people would'not dare to ask you to borrow money and rude enough that if they do you are able to scare them into giving it to you.

  • Know your real friends at work. Do not try to best friends with everyone the first few weeks, it's okay to laugh but don't tell people your personal business.
    Treat people how they treat you. Only give your all to people that deserve it. Don't take people for granted.
  • Do not use guys for money. Karma is a bitch and that's lame anyway. Men are not personal ATM's, work for your money and hold on to your dignity. 
  • Live your life. Choose your own major, fuck who you want and do what you want Only if you can handle the consequences.
Do good. Balance it out, it is better for injustice to be done to you than to do it to others. 






XoXo, SOSSO